

Ten Ways a Couples Workshop is Better Than Therapy
Ever considered a couples workshop? Lots of folks think that therapy is the only way a professional counselor can help their...


Differences or Deficiencies?
In so many areas of life, it's not what happens, it's what you think about what happens. It's what you decide about what happens. A...


"I Thought I'd Lost That!"
Have you ever lost something around the house and then found it? Maybe you didn't even know you'd lost it. But, when it turned up, how...


Learn to Listen to Learn
​ John Gottman has rightly discovered that, when couples fight, what they fight about is seldom the problem. It's more a matter of how...


Speak with an Accent of Love
​"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." I learned that on the playground in kindergarten, but I think it...
When Is It Time to See a Therapist?
When is it time for couples counseling? How do you know when you and your partner need a therapist? Of course, no two couples are the...


Welcome to Pairs Care!
Today begins a new month, a new chapter in my life and a new career. Welcome to Pairs Care! This is my first foray into blogging and I'm...