Step Into Your Future

If you’re a social media user, maybe you’ve noticed the recent trend. People are flashing back to 2016 and posting photos and stories about the decade since then. You’d probably agree, a lot has changed in ten years. How are you different today? Any regrets? If you got a do-over, what would you change? Since 2016, I’ve moved to a new state, lived in two different homes, started a new business and added a few more gray hairs. I’ve lost some friends and made some. I’ve celebrated the birth of two more grandchildren and lived through a pandemic. I’ve rejoiced in some changes and regretted others. We can see and learn a lot by looking back; as they say, hindsight is 20/20.

But, perhaps the bigger question is: what and where will you be ten years from now? How does the future look? We can’t control everything to come but the life still ahead is at least somewhat in your hands. Your choices are yours. Your priorities, your values will indeed largely chart your course. You can’t change your past, but you can help shape your future.

If you’re married or in a committed relationship, where will you and your partner be in ten years? Hopefully, you want your relationship to grow ever stronger…and it absolutely can. Love can be lifelong. But, how will you get there? Merely hoping for it isn’t enough. The old saying goes, “Fail to plan and you plan to fail.” Too many couples are on autopilot. With time, they grow distant and distracted and sadly, begin to believe that their love is dead. Few couples set out to ruin their relationship. Thus, they don’t usually end by intention. More often than not, it’s inattention.

Any relationship is either progressing or regressing. Start now creating the relationship you want. Let me suggest progress in three words: Hold Me Tight®️. A two day Hold Me Tight®️ couples workshop can give your relationship a truly bright future. It’s for couples of any age or stage, whether “newlywed or nearly dead.” You may fear that you won’t be a couple in ten years. Hold Me Tight®️ can help. Or you may be good but want to be even better. Hold Me Tight®️ is for you as well.

All you need is the “want to.” If you want to understand attachment, the science of love, if you want learn to interrupt those too familiar cycles of conflict that all couples experience but often don't know how to manage, and if you want to create deep connection and safety with the one you love…Hold Me Tight®️ is for you.

Hold Me Tight®️ has helped couples the world over. It’s low key and fun; you go at your own pace. In two days, you can find a road map for your next ten years and beyond. Our next Hold Me Tight®️ workshop will be on Valentine’s Day weekend, February 13 and 14 near Orlando, FL. Join me and my colleague, Vicki Kennedy for a transformational weekend. All the details are at www.hmtcouplesworkshops.com.

You will either settle for the relationship you’ve got or go for the one you want.

Step into your future right now!