Learn to Listen to Learn
​ John Gottman has rightly discovered that, when couples fight, what they fight about is seldom the problem. It's more a matter of how...
Speak with an Accent of Love
​"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." I learned that on the playground in kindergarten, but I think it...
When Is It Time to See a Therapist?
When is it time for couples counseling? How do you know when you and your partner need a therapist? Of course, no two couples are the...
Welcome to Pairs Care!
Today begins a new month, a new chapter in my life and a new career. Welcome to Pairs Care! This is my first foray into blogging and I'm...